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Taming the Voices Inside
We all have the voices inside. The inner critic, the one who bullies you. How do we make peace and quiet the voices that torture us and put us down, when those voices are parts of us?
Sep 18, 20163 min read
Why Coaching, Why the ReConnected Life Experience?
Existing, conventional, approaches to recovery need improvement. The ReConnected Life Experience pioneers a whole-self approach to recovery which empowers us to take control for ourselves
Sep 10, 20164 min read
After Is Anything You Want It To Be
Before Rape. After Rape. People say, we’re forever changed. No. He doesn’t have that power, not anymore.
Aug 30, 20162 min read


Eastenders & the Lottery
On Eastenders and the lottery win of featuring in the press.
Aug 29, 20163 min read
Hurting
I'm so mixed up at the moment. Life is just so much of a struggle, some days I don't feel like I can carry on. Other days I'm surprised by how I can even feel happy
Aug 22, 20161 min read
Labels - What's in a Name?
Labels are supposed to be useful shortcuts to describe things and people. And yet they come with a whole bunch of preconceptions & associations which are not useful at all.
Aug 18, 20163 min read
End of Innocence
I used to be a person who saw the best in people, who knew that life was inherently good and that all was well that ended well – and if things weren't well, they just hadn't ended yet.
Aug 10, 20162 min read
Being the right kind of friend
I had a call the other day from a friend of mine. Her friend had told her another friend had been raped; what could this friend do, what should this friend do, to support her?
Aug 3, 20162 min read
To report or not to report
A question was posed in the ReConnected Life Community Group. Should I pursue justice through reporting to the police? The answer here is that it is no-one’s decision but your own. But there are some fundamental self-care questions to consider.
Aug 3, 20162 min read
It gets better
Today is 10th April 2016. It’s about 7.30pm now, as I’m writing this. I guess 8 years ago I was meeting him, had already met him probably, by now.
Aug 3, 20165 min read
My journey to here
I’ve been avoiding this ‘niche’ for a very long time…
Aug 3, 20162 min read
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