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The Difference Between Avoidance and Genuine Capacity Limits
Learn the vital difference between panic avoidance and genuine capacity limits in trauma recovery. Discover a 1-minute grounding practice and release shame.
1 day ago5 min read


Why Stage One Safety Must Come Before Stage Two Understanding
Discover why Judith Herman's Stage One safety and stabilisation must come before Stage Two understanding in trauma recovery, and how to protect your capacity when life feels overwhelming.
Sep 45 min read


Building Your Personal Stabilization Toolkit: Small Practices for Heavy Days
Discover how small micro-practices accumulate into long-term nervous system safety on heavy days. Download the free 21-page Survivor's Survival Kit.
Aug 285 min read


The Power of Pause: Why Rest Is a Radical Act of Trauma Recovery
Discover why rest is a radical act of trauma recovery, how an alert nervous system misinterprets stillness, and gentle practices to restore safety.
Aug 215 min read


Immediate Support Without Waiting: Why Trauma Healing Can't Be Put On Hold
Discover why trauma recovery cannot be delayed. Learn how licensing Taste of Recovery provides immediate, trauma-informed support to survivors on waiting lists.
Aug 144 min read


Coming Home to Yourself: A Summer Solstice Reflection on Reconnection
What does it mean to come home to yourself after trauma? A reflective summer solstice piece on reconnection, nervous system recovery, and the slow, real work of rebuilding , with warmth and honesty.
Jul 176 min read


Burnout and Trauma: Why They're More Connected Than You Think
Burnout and trauma share the same nervous system roots. If you're exhausted, numb, or running on empty, this might explain why , and what actually helps.
Jul 176 min read


Look What May Brought: Awards, Manchester, and a Birthday I'll Never Forget
A tender, proud reflection on a May that brought a Highly Commended award, the Saint Mary's SARC Conference in Manchester, and a birthday that felt more meaningful than ever. From Emily at ReConnected Life.
Jul 135 min read


Supporting Others While Protecting Your Energy: The Rothacs Rebrand
Read Emily’s positive update on managing energy, supporting existing partners like Rothacs, and taking an empowered stand to protect her peace.
Jul 134 min read


Pride, Visibility & Solidarity: Women Will Not Be Safe Until the Most Vulnerable Women Are Safe
This Pride Month, Emily Jacob of ReConnected Life writes about solidarity, safety, and why women will not be safe until the most vulnerable women are safe. A bold, grounded read.
Jun 55 min read


Why Healing Doesn't Move in a Straight Line (and Why That's Okay)
Recovery from trauma isn't linear , and that's not a sign you're failing. Emily shares why healing works best at your nervous system's pace, and how to keep moving without pushing too hard.
May 225 min read


Nervous and Excited: Why This Conversation Is Long Overdue
Emily shares her emotional journey preparing to speak at Saint Mary's SARC Annual Conference about reaching unreached survivors and bridging the gap in trauma support.
Apr 174 min read


Preparing This Keynote Has Me Feeling All the Things
A behind-the-scenes look at preparing to speak at Saint Mary's SARC Annual Conference. Emily shares the emotional weight of speaking to the sector as a survivor.
Apr 105 min read


When Self-Care Feels Impossible (And What I Do Instead)
Living with MS, trauma, and perimenopause means self-care often feels impossible. Here's what I do instead when the Instagram version isn't realistic.
Apr 35 min read


The System That's Supposed to Help Survivors Is Broken - Here's the Proof
The UK support system for sexual violence survivors is failing at every level. From funding cuts to court failures, here's the proof - and what actually works instead.
Mar 276 min read


When I Needed Help, These Were the Barriers I Faced
A deeply personal account of the barriers faced when seeking help after trauma: waiting lists, limited options, readiness requirements, and access issues.
Mar 204 min read


Living with MS Taught Me About Accessibility Barriers Survivors Face
How living with MS revealed the same accessibility barriers survivors face when seeking trauma support, and why I built ReConnected Life differently.
Mar 134 min read


Someone Asked Me Why Our Programmes Work When Others Don't
Immediate access, self-paced recovery, and survivor-led support. Discover why ReConnected Life programmes help survivors move from surviving to living when traditional approaches fall short.
Mar 63 min read


Our Partner Organisations Are Doing Incredible Work - And They're Drowning
The charities supporting survivors are doing vital work under immense pressure. Reduced funding, greater need, and rising costs. The reality of the service crisis and what it means for survivors.
Feb 275 min read


A Message Came Through Yesterday: The Gap Between Therapy Sessions and Real Life
What happens after the 12 therapy sessions end? A real message reveals the gap between structured support and everyday life, and why peer community matters for ongoing healing.
Feb 206 min read
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