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Christmas, and Families
The Christmas/holiday season is approaching, and many of us are going to be spending time with our families….
Dec 13, 20163 min read
I am Enough
Enough. "The required degree, or extent”. In what world is sufficient, or adequate the same as ample or abundant? What is enough?
Dec 8, 20163 min read
Sleep Rituals
Getting to sleep can seem an unattainable dream; here are my tips for how to get a restful night's sleep.
Nov 22, 20161 min read
Hierarchy of Pain
Who says that the pain of a broken heart is less when the relationship lasted a short time, that only the end of a longer relationship deserves tears? A broken heart is a broken heart. There is no hierarchy of pain.
Nov 16, 20163 min read


It’s Not Fair! (Choose Life)
When bad things happen to good people the natural, and very normal, response is to scream “it’s not fair!” But it’s what we choose to do about it that counts. Choose life.
Nov 11, 20164 min read
Pain is Inevitable...
Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Not. I used to want to scream at people who said that. But it's true. Allowing ourselves to feel empathy and compassion for others’ pain makes us human.
Oct 22, 20163 min read
Fight, flight, freeze
Most people think in terms of fight or flight. But there are three further traumatic responses available. Have you never heard of the rabbit in the headlights?
Oct 5, 20163 min read
The Power of Scent
Scent & scented oil. An invisible protection that you can carry in your pocket. A life-saver.
Sep 29, 20161 min read
Taming the Voices Inside
We all have the voices inside. The inner critic, the one who bullies you. How do we make peace and quiet the voices that torture us and put us down, when those voices are parts of us?
Sep 18, 20163 min read
Why Coaching, Why the ReConnected Life Experience?
Existing, conventional, approaches to recovery need improvement. The ReConnected Life Experience pioneers a whole-self approach to recovery which empowers us to take control for ourselves
Sep 10, 20164 min read
After Is Anything You Want It To Be
Before Rape. After Rape. People say, we’re forever changed. No. He doesn’t have that power, not anymore.
Aug 30, 20162 min read
Labels - What's in a Name?
Labels are supposed to be useful shortcuts to describe things and people. And yet they come with a whole bunch of preconceptions & associations which are not useful at all.
Aug 18, 20163 min read
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