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The System That's Supposed to Help Survivors Is Broken - Here's the Proof
The UK support system for sexual violence survivors is failing at every level. From funding cuts to court failures, here's the proof - and what actually works instead.
Mar 276 min read


When I Needed Help, These Were the Barriers I Faced
A deeply personal account of the barriers faced when seeking help after trauma: waiting lists, limited options, readiness requirements, and access issues.
Mar 204 min read


Living with MS Taught Me About Accessibility Barriers Survivors Face
How living with MS revealed the same accessibility barriers survivors face when seeking trauma support, and why I built ReConnected Life differently.
Mar 134 min read


Why I’m Not Attending FiLiA: Solidarity Means Standing With All Survivors
Emily reflects on why she is not attending FiLiA this year and how solidarity must mean safety and inclusion for all survivors, including trans women. A gentle, honest invitation to build survivor spaces where no one is left behind.
Oct 15, 20253 min read
Debunking the Law of Attraction
The Law of Attraction is a popular but flawed concept that can result in victim-blaming and undermines our self-healing and self-acceptance. In this blog I debunk The Secret and The Law of Attraction
Apr 30, 20216 min read
Coaches are Humans Too
Everything I teach in my programmes, all the rituals to help us to maintain our equilibrium, to quiet our inner critics, to build resilience against the knocks of life, those are things that I have to do too. And of course I am not perfect at doing them.
Nov 7, 20204 min read
Radical Acceptance
Chronic illness makes everything feel like wading through treacle. News on the upcoming ReConnect Your Life programme, and coaching. There's a lot to be grateful, and Radical Acceptance for the rest
Nov 26, 20185 min read
PTSD is not a disorder
PTSD stands for post-traumatic stress disorder, but it’s not a disorder of the brain; the brain is doing what it is naturally supposed to do. What is at fault is the trauma, not the response to it.
Sep 10, 20186 min read
Pacing
I am so grateful I learned these techniques in my recovery, because they are my lifelines now, and I still wish I had known them before my breakdown, and so here are my pacing tips for you.
Aug 5, 20189 min read
Healing Pathways
‘The habits you created to survive will no longer serve you when it’s time to thrive. Get out of survival mode. New habits, new life.’ Healing Pathways for your new life.
Jun 9, 20186 min read
What Is Luck, Anyway?
What is Luck, Anyway? Me, on my MS diagnosis
Feb 19, 20187 min read
Storytelling
Storytelling. Telling our stories. So much more than three words.
Jan 7, 20185 min read
My Review of My 2017: The Year Dreams Came True
2017. The year dreams came true.
Dec 30, 20179 min read
My Body, My Shame
My body is my secret shame. (Well, not so secret now).
Jul 3, 20174 min read
Self-Healing
Learning to stay in the abyss. Until it merely evaporated from around me.
Apr 17, 20177 min read
On Anniversaries
Anniversaries can feel very difficult to traverse. This post marks my 9th.
Apr 10, 20173 min read
Re-Triggered
Even in recovery, triggers can exist. New ones can even be created. And that's OK.
Mar 11, 20175 min read
Dark Times Need Light
In times of darkness, we need to look for positivity to bring light.
Jan 29, 20174 min read
Bodyful
Mindfulness is a bit of a buzzword these days. Being bodyful is just as, if not more, important.
Jan 16, 20175 min read
Out with the Old, In with the New
A post about looking backwards, and looking forwards, at this time of year was inevitable
Jan 9, 20173 min read
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