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When Self-Care Feels Impossible (And What I Do Instead)
Living with MS, trauma, and perimenopause means self-care often feels impossible. Here's what I do instead when the Instagram version isn't realistic.
Apr 35 min read


Soft Grounding Techniques for Winter: Nervous System Tools That Don't Require Energy
Discover gentle, evidence-based grounding techniques designed for winter's low-energy months. Practical nervous system tools that work with your body, not against it.
Jan 306 min read


Intentions vs Resolutions: Why Softness Matters in January (And How to Build Them)
Explore why resolutions feel heavy and how softer intentions can lift the weight from your shoulders. Learn to build sustainable intentions that honour your autonomy and pace.
Jan 165 min read


Winter Biology and Why January Feels Like Recovery: Understanding Your Nervous System in the Quiet Months
Understand why January feels heavy. Learn about winter biology, nervous system science, and practical ways to work with your body's natural winter rhythm for healing.
Jan 96 min read


Post-Holiday Nervous System Recovery: Understanding Low Energy in Early January
Understanding post-holiday nervous system recovery and why low energy in early January is completely normal.
Jan 22 min read


Navigating Office Parties: Consent, Boundaries, and Survivor Safety at Year-End Events
End-of-year office parties can bring celebration and anxiety, especially for survivors. Discover why consent is always required, how to set compassionate boundaries, and ways to prioritise safety during festive work events.
Dec 5, 20254 min read


Standing Together: Collective Compassion and Gentle Activism for Survivors
Discover gentle activism and collective compassion during the 16 Days of Activism for Survivors. Learn how small gestures, listening, resting, lighting a candle, are powerful forms of solidarity. All stories and ways of participating are valid at ReConnected Life.
Nov 28, 20254 min read


Why November Feels Heavy: Nature, Neuroscience, and the Gift of Rest
Explore why November often feels heavy, from the science of circadian rhythms and serotonin dips to gentle grounding routines. Discover how to honour your body’s needs this season and find rest, at your own pace. Supported by University College London research.
Nov 21, 20254 min read


Walking Home: Building Confidence and Finding Your Way After Dark
Explore gentle, survivor-centred tips for walking safely after dark. This blog from ReConnected Life offers non-blaming advice, empowers autonomy, and affirms that your safety is never your fault.
Nov 14, 20254 min read


Finding Warmth and Safety in Autumn’s Darkness: A Survivor’s Guide to November
This gentle guide for trauma survivors explores autumn anxiety, reframing darkness, cosy self-care kits, and supportive routines for November. Discover how to find warmth, agency, and calm as the nights grow long, with compassion and autonomy at every step.
Nov 7, 20254 min read


Grief and Hope: Finding Light at the End of a Hard Month
October at ReConnected Life has been a month of grief, healing, and hope. In this closing reflection, Emily honours the stories, struggles, and courage of survivors, reminding us all that both sorrow and hope can coexist, and we don’t have to walk alone.
Oct 31, 20253 min read


Bridging the Gap: How ReConnected Life and SARCs are Creating Real Support for Survivors
Discover how ReConnected Life partners with Sexual Assault Referral Centres (SARCs), including St Mary’s SARC in Manchester, to bridge the critical support gap after crisis care. Learn how trauma-informed tools like Taste of Recovery offer survivors a gentle, immediate pathway to healing , and why every SARC deserves access to these resources.
Oct 24, 20254 min read


Learning as Healing: Self-Directed Study When Recovery Feels Out of Reach
Self-directed learning can be a lifeline for survivors when therapy is unavailable or overwhelming. Emily shares her favourite books, courses, and resources that gently supported her healing. Discover hope, agency, and the power of community-curated wisdom in your own recovery journey.
Oct 17, 20254 min read


How Taste of Recovery Licensing Supports Survivors and Your Team
Discover how Taste of Recovery Licensing offers immediate, trauma-informed support for survivors and practical tools for your team. Used by 17+ charities and Swansea University, it’s scalable, cost-effective, and improves therapy outcomes. Find out how to introduce it at your organisation and support frontline teams.
Sep 19, 20253 min read


What to Do If You’ve Been Sexually Assaulted While Abroad
Gentle, non-blaming support for travellers who have experienced sexual assault abroad. Practical steps, trauma-informed guidance, self-care, and safe community. You are not alone – it was never your fault.
Aug 1, 20254 min read
The Productivity Myth: Why Overlooking Leadership Stress Hurts Business Growth
There’s a common belief in the business world that success comes from relentless hustle. More hours, more meetings, more responsibilities—because surely, if you just keep pushing, you’ll get ahead. But what if that mindset isn’t just flawed, but actively harming your business? Stress isn’t just a personal burden—it’s a business problem. When leadership stress is ignored, productivity suffers, decision-making becomes clouded, and the very growth you’re striving for slows down.
Mar 29, 20254 min read
Stress Is Contagious: The Ripple Effects of Leadership Burnout on Teams and Businesses
Burnout isn’t just a personal struggle—it’s a silent disruptor that can seep into every corner of a workplace. When a leader carries the weight of constant demands and mounting stress, it doesn’t just stay with them; it ripples outward, influencing the energy, morale, and cohesion of the entire team. The effects go beyond individual well-being, impacting productivity, team dynamics, and even the long-term success of the business. What Is Leadership Burnout? Leadership burnout
Feb 16, 20254 min read
Top 10 Self-Care Tips for Survivors of Sexual Violence
When life feels overwhelming, even the smallest acts of self-care can feel like climbing a mountain. For survivors of sexual violence, self-care is not an indulgence—it’s a vital part of reclaiming your life and finding moments of peace amidst the chaos.Find ways of fitting in tiny pockets of comfort and healing, one step at a time. Here are 10 ways to gently take care of yourself, whether you’re just starting your journey or looking for new ideas to nurture your well-being.
Feb 1, 20255 min read
The Hidden Weight of Leadership: How Unacknowledged Stress and Trauma Affect You and Your Team
Trauma is the root cause of prolific absenteeism, long-term sickness, declining productivity, and burnout in the UK workplace. According to Britain’s Healthiest Workplace survey data, “Productivity has been dropping steadily since 2014, with businesses losing over a month each year per employee.” In 2023 (the latest data available), employees lost 20% of their working hours to a decline in productivity. That’s the equivalent of each person losing 49.7 productive days per annu
Jan 20, 20255 min read
Designing Your Wheel of Life: A Positive Step Towards Balance and Growth
Life is a delicate balance of many parts, and sometimes it helps to step back and look at the bigger picture. The Wheel of Life is a simple, powerful tool to bring awareness to where you are now and where you'd like to be. It’s a chance to reflect, refocus, and take action in a way that feels both achievable and inspiring. Let’s guide you through creating your own Wheel of Life, step by step. Why Now Is the Perfect Time Around the New Year, it’s natural to reflect on the past
Dec 21, 20244 min read
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